The Power Of Personal Stories

In Parishes

One parish I know had an interesting exercise in story telling/story sharing after Pre-Sanctified Liturgy. Following a light meal in the Church hi!!, the priest Fed a group discussion by telling a personal story of his own. He opened up. He then invited others to follow with atones of their own. The group slowly opened up to share stories about themselves with the others. The common element in the stories was the presence of the Church in their lives.    The scene was simple and dignified. I have no doubt that something very important happened that evening. They did open and share their lives. They did express their faith. They did touch each other. And, I am sure, they did magnify God.

In the Home

Similar sharing can be organized or simply suggested on the spot, in one's home. Once, following a Lay Ministries meeting in my living room, I asked the committee members to join me in a sharing of personal childhood stories about faith and Church.

As I recall, I led with a story about my grandfather and Church. The story was simple and direct. My grandfather tipped his hat as he passed any, and every Church. He said that he believed God didn't dissimulate and was, indeed present in every Church.

We discussed the impact of this story for a little while. Others then volunteered stories of their own. One woman mind as she spoke her story.

My life, our lives, were deeply moved by the sharing.

In the Family

When my mother visited our home during my children's early years; I had a regular request for her. I asked her to tell a bedtime story about her childhood, or my childhood, to my children.  My mother was flattered that I would ask her such a clear, deliverable request She felt needed and included. She also understood almost instinctively that she Sad something very, very valuable to contribute to the lives of my children, a part of her very fiber, her very soul. 

The story telling time proved to be a relaxed, easy, loving time for my mother and her grandchildren. Judging by the eyes and attention of the children, something almost magical was happening. The children were temporarily transported to the world of their Nanny's youth. In subsequent visits, the children themselves began to ask for Nanny's stories. The children loved them. They felt close to their grandmother and to her treasures, told in the form of her stories. As a parent, I have often put my children to sleep with stories from my childhood. Those moment were moments of special bonding. The children came to know their daddy as he was as a child. After awhile, I ran dry of stories from my childhood. The children would beg for reruns of the oft-told, well worn stories. Soon the children could tell the same stories with as much detail as! could.

Seasons for story telling

 Special seasons provide special opportunities for stories. Lent, vacations, Thanksgiving. Pascha, Christmas, and other feasts all provides unique time to tell and retell stories about Church, childhood and God.

 The task is to understand the power of story telling and to look for chances to share. These chances can be planned for family settings, in home meetings and parish affairs.

 As with all efforts to seek God, we ask to be led by and be open to the prompting and leading of the Holy Spirit Weak for the right time and setting for a story telling scene, and for the night stories to share. Within the stories is a faith sharing. Inside of the heart of the very story is an impulse given and received from the very heart of God.

 Story telling in this form is the passing along of oral history. This is the way God passed along his revelation of Himself to his chosen people, the nation Israel. God moves within the heart of the storyteller, and the story receiver, to reveal His own heart. In a way, telling and hearing stories of our experience of Church is a way of entering into the very heartbeat of God. We might say we co-reveal God by participating in His revelation of Himself through our memory and our experience of Him.