Young Orthodox Mail

YO-Mail Issue #12 -- 15 July 1998

In this issue:

  • From the Office: The End of the World: How Would We React?
  • Food for the Soul: 'If you confess with your mouth ... and believe with your heart ... you will be saved'
  • An Orthodox Look: Movies: Deep Impact and Armageddon
  • On the Calendar: Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America Plans Orthodox Youth Day at NJ 6-Flags Theme Park
  • In the News: Federated Russian Orthodox Clubs (FROC) becomes Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America (FOCA)
  • Real Questions, Real Answers: Preparing to Receive Holy Communion

    Readers Write ...

  • Some Words on Past Issues

    From the Office:

    The End of the World: How Would We React?

    In the "Orthodox Look At" section we review two of the big summer movies that deal with the possible end of the world. In each of them we see how differentpeople react to their upcoming deaths.

    Some people felt that they should "live it up, since they were just going to die anyway." They tried to take advantage of others, slept with as many people as possible, borrowed money that they felt they would never have to repay, and even killed themselves.

    Others felt that the fact they were going to die was a reason to do other things. They sacrificed themselves so that others would survive, reconciled themselves with people they had separated from years before, and did everything they could think of to survive without compromising their integrity.

    So, we have a new question for you: If you had only one year left to live, what do you think you would do?


    Food for the Soul

    Rom 10:6, 8-9 (from the Epistle on the 5th Sunday after Pentecost)

    The righteousness of faith speaks in this way. ... "The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart" (that is the word of faith which we preach): that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. ...

    St Paul teaches that those who have the integrity of real faith do not say "Who will ascend into heaven?" or "Who will descend into hell?" (Rom 10:6-7). These are the wrong questions to ask, and indicate a belief that salvation is determined by "law." Many non-Orthodox Christians are willing and eager to take Holy Scripture into their hands as ammunition to prove their arguments in the "court" of God's law, not realizing that Christ brought an end to this type of faith (Rom 10:4).

    It is very common to hear people today, who have a "zeal for God, but not according to knowledge" (Rom 10:2), ask such questions as "Have you been saved?" or "Have you been born again?" Though they mean well, they easily fall into the trap about which St Paul has warned us. As Orthodox Christians, we need to take these questions seriously, but "according to the knowledge of Christ that has been given to us" by the Holy Spirit working in the Church.

    If we are asked the question "are you saved?" we can answer with faith "I was saved by baptism into Christ's Church, I am being saved by believing in and partaking of Christ through His Church, and I will be saved on the final day."

    When we have what St Paul calls the "righteousness of faith," our whole life is transformed. With our mouths we confess the Lord not only with the words of Holy Scripture but with our hearts -- meaning with everything we are and everything we do. When we partake of the Eucharist, we confess the Lord with our mouths in a very special way -- here is an action louder than any words! Our confession is made even more meaningful when it is expressed through the active following of God's will that comes from a believing heart.

    Something to think about:

    "O Holy Trinity, enlighten the eyes of my understanding, open my mouth to receive Thy words, teach me Thy commandments, help me to do Thy will, confessing Thee from my heart. Singing and praising Thine all-holy Name: of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen."


    Movies: Deep Impact and Armageddon

    A couple years ago scientists discovered that a very large asteroid was going to come close to hitting the Earth. This summer Hollywood explored this theme with two movies: "Deep Impact" and "Armageddon." Both movies have the same premise as their theme, but each deals with that theme in a very specific way.

    Deep Impact

    Deep Impact is a thought-provoking look at how we humans might react if we knew that the end of the world was coming. The name itself brings to mind not only the image of a rock slamming into the earth, but also the profound effect that the possibility of this event could have on people's lives. Issues of faith, loyalty, despair, love, and family are explored with some impressive special effects towards the end of the film.

    Armageddon

    As the name suggests, the film is a big summertime blockbuster and therefore fills the screen with explosions and great effects. An enjoyable two hours, the movie enables you to leave your thinking cap outside and enjoy a fun ride through space and potential oblivion. Unfortunately, many of the elements of the story don't get the attention they need, as the creators wanted to show us dazzling views of cities being destroyed. Perhaps they could have cut out three or four of those long views of earth through the asteroid landscape in favor of a little more attention to what could have been some interesting storylines.

    On the up side:

    On the down side:


    On the Calendar

    Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America Sponsors Orthodox Youth Day at New Jersey 6-Flags Great Adventure Park

    All Orthodox youth in the New Jersey area are invited to participate in an Orthodox Youth Day at 6-Flags Great Adventure Amusement Park on Sunday September 20, 1998.

    The New Jersey District of the Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America, in cooperation with Orthodox parishes from various ethnic backgrounds in the area, is sponsoring this event to bring Orthodox youth together for some fellowship and fun.

    The cost -- $35 -- includes entrance to the park, as well as a T-shirt.

    The New Jersey District of FOCA hopes to make this an annual event. For more information contact Allison Steffaro at +1.732.698.1952.

    To advertise your event here send information to: youth@oca.org


    In the News

    Federated Russian Orthodox Clubs Becomes Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America

    This past month at its annual convention, the FROC took bold steps to ensure that all Orthodox Christians would feel welcome in the organization. By a large majority the convention body voted to change its name from the Federated Russian Orthodox Clubs to the Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America.

    Recently, the "Russian" in FROC had been mostly perfunctory since the vast majority of the membership is comprised of third and fourth generation Americans or converts to the Faith.

    The name change is just one step in FOCA's efforts to renew its mission to reach out and offer fellowship and a sense of purpose to all Orthodox Christians on the North American continent. Created over 70 years ago, the FROC has continually been dedicated to gathering Orthodox Christians locally, regionally, and from across North America to support and enhance the missionary and youth ministry efforts of the Orthodox Church here in the "new world." Other important steps include adopting a powerful mission statement, aligning its youth ministry efforts with the Orthodox Church in America's Office of Youth and Young Adult Ministries, and creating district chapters-at-large for people who may not have a FOCA chapter in their parish but who would like to participate in regional and North American projects and events.

    Today the Fellowship of Orthodox Christian in America rallies hundreds of youth and young adults with worthwhile projects to help people in need, as well as our Orthodox Church overseas and here in North America. Regional and continent-wide events provide youth and young adults opportunities to create lasting friendships with other Orthodox Christians in a society which still often asks "Are you Jewish?" when you mention you are Orthodox.

    For information about joining the Fellowship of Orthodox Christians in America or its programs, contact their Administrative Office at +1.717.825.3158.


    Real Questions, Real Answers!

    Preparing to Receive Holy Communion

    Q. (from FS from MS)

    I have a question. A few days ago I read an article in The Dawn [The Dawn is the Official Publication of the Diocese of the South] A priest said that you should not watch movies, go to parties, or seek entertainment on Saturday evenings. Instead you are supposed to pray and prepare yourself for Sunday's communion. Praying and preparing is fine. I prepare for communion by Vespers/evening service on Saturday night. But do I have to not watch movies or go to parties? It seems irrational since we can't party on Fridays because we fast, and we teenagers need our sleep on all the other nights to be ready for school.

    What are we supposed to do?

    A.

    F.S., the answer to your question is not an easy one. The article to which you were referring ("Receiving Holy Communion On a Regular Basis," The Dawn, April 1998) is worded very strongly. It is true, as the article states, that we "must be serious about our spiritual life and growth." It is also equally true that we must remember to be humble and realize that no matter what we do and no matter how well we follow the "law" or the rules, we are still unworthy to partake of Holy Communion. Remember Holy Communion is a gift and can't be earned. So in one sense, regardless of what we do or don't do on Saturday night, we will never really be ready to receive Communion.

    We cannot, however, even begin to appreciate this gift and realize our unworthiness if we have neglected to prepare spiritually. We prepare in a number of ways. Attending Vespers is a good start. More importantly, we should say specific prayers before Communion if we plan on receiving. Vespers is not a substitute for the prayers before Communion.

    We should also fast, which means not only refraining from food and drink after our prayer time, but also from "partaking" of those things which distract us from our spiritual growth. Fasting and prayer go hand in hand. The most important thing each of us needs to do is take our spiritual life seriously.

    If you have a concern about taking part in a specific activity, you need to ask yourself whether or not this is really helping me to prepare for Communion with God? Am I adding to my unworthiness before God, or am I trying to do the best I can?

    In regards to your question, remember, whenever we have a question regarding something we read about prayer and/or spiritual discipline, we should ask our spiritual father. He is the guide to our spiritual life and can best judge what is best for us according to our need and ability.

    Prayer life is like physical exercise -- we do best when we consult a personal trainer who will work with us to develop the best program. This program of prayer and fasting is part of God's plan for our life, which is unique and special. If we trust God's guidance through our spiritual father and take our spiritual life seriously, seeking the Kingdom of Heaven, all our needs will be met, our life will be enriched, and we can even have some fun in the process.

    If you have a question, or know a friend who does, send it to us at youth@oca.org. We'll give you a direct and concise answer!


    Readers Write ...

    Some Words on Past Issues

    SW from CA writes:

    I thoroughly enjoy your articles and think that the things discussed are useful.

    I did want to add a note to your article on hate crimes. The way that the data you used is gathered is very subjective. A "hate crime" according to the FBI, is anytime a white man assaults a black man. In other words, if a white man kills a black man because the black man did something bad to the white man, it is defined as a hate crime. Even though the color of the black man's skin had nothing to do with the homicide, it is still considered a "hate crime." A second point is that when a black man assaults a white man, it is not considered a "hate crime." Until we all become telepathic, we can't say whether or not something is a hate crime.

    Murder is murder, irrespective of a person's race. Just because someone kills someone of another race for racial reasons shouldn't make the crime any worse. Murder is murder, period.

    Deciding if something is a hate crime or not makes me think of Matthew 7:1-5. We should judge only the crime, not the motivation. The men in Texas killed a man; who cares why -- they killed one of God's children. God knows their motivation, let Him condemn them if need be.

    Joel Swehla
    P.S. You can use my name

    >>

    Thanks for the update, Joel. We didn't know that was how the FBI defines hate crimes. According to our research hate crimes are defined as offenses motivated by the dislike of a person's race, religion, sexual orientation, handicap, or national origin. If you get a chance, let us know where you got your definition.

    The article was based upon research on news reports and articles about incidents which involved Hispanics, Koreans, and Jews, as well as African-Americans. The most recent incidents obviously involved African-Americans.

    From your scripture reference [Judge not, lest you be judged...] we're afraid you might have gotten the wrong message from the article. There is no question about who is the true judge. It's God. We, however, need to be aware of current trends and address them as Christians. That's the purpose of the "In the News" section in YO-Mail.

    If more and more people are being assaulted and even killed simply because of their skin color, ethnic heritage, or religious beliefs, we Christians need to start talking to people about the fact that all people are, as you stated, children of God. We need to let people know that belonging to hate groups is contradictory to being a Christian. The idea is not to judge people but to try to correct their understanding.

    MO from TX writes:

    OK, I don't usually do this but I heard the "cutest" song that really had a message along with a great beat! It's by Will Smith (MIB fame) and is a sort of a remake of an old Bill Withers song ("Just the Two of Us"); he has his son say a few words as well. You need to hear this, and when you do surely you will include it in your review.

    Smith gives praise to God and stresses the importance of being faithful and righteous. He also says to respect women and family, and emphasizes the importance of an education.

    I hope you don't mind my suggesting this, but with all the other trash on the airwaves, I thought this song might make one of your reviews and maybe -- just maybe -- touch the soul of a single person and make a difference in his life.

    Thanks for all the GREAT work you do!

    >>

    Thanks for the suggestion. It is a cute song, and gets you right in the gut. We think we even saw one of our staff get a little misty-eyed when they heard it. We don't have anything to add to your comments. While Will Smith has made some serious mistakes in his life, he sure seems to want to make the world a little better for his son.

    In response to an earlier question about TV, FS from MS writes:

    TV is both good and bad. For example, there are many funny and educational programs on TV. You can learn many things that you are afraid to ask your parents. However, TV can also be hypnotizing. Once I start watching, and I have nothing better to do, I often find it hard to turn off the TV. TV can also be harmful to our minds. There are constant acts of violence, sex, and stupid stuff on the TV. Overall, TV is only harmful if you let it be.

    Although the average teenager watches a lot of TV, we don't have to. Much of the time there is nothing worthwhile watching, as my dad puts it. I agree with him. We should control the TV, not let the TV control us!

    >>

    According to your response it appears we were on the right track with our response to the TV question. Thanks for sending in!

    Thanks for sending, one and all! Until we get some form of chat room up and running, this is the closest we can come to talking with you. Keep it coming!

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